Today, JB in wintery New Zealand shares thoughts that touch my heart
A sunny, midwinter Sunday with nothing to do and nowhere to go. So..
Have you ever read a poem that seemed to be written just for you? This is such a poem and it speaks to me in my late husband’s words. How often did he ask me to put down a book to see something he wanted to share or to tell me something he thought I should like to hear?
Several years ago (11 to be exact) I came across this poem from James Rainsford. It seemed to be written just for me:
Thank you, James, for giving me permission to reprint your poem on my blog some 11 years ago.
Since that time I have read many of his poems and every one is special. Click hereto read more of his work.
“James says he is “a one time merchant-seaman, teacher, lecturer, salesman, company director, mushroom farmer, philosopher and inveterate reprobate. Now trying (not too hard) to become a modern “Renaissance Man” pursuing the questionable consolation of writing, photography””
It was almost like the Roberta Flack song ‘Killing me softly with his song” and the words ” He sang as if he knew me in all my dark despair”. I do think James knew what it was like to be where I was after my husband died.
So those are my thoughts for today. Oh and the definition of speculation according to the OED – is the act of forming opinions about what has happened or what might happen without knowing all the facts.
Today’s quote is from Wayne Dyer, American self-help advocate, author, and lecturer. 1940-
“Be miserable. Or motivate yourself. Whatever has to be done, it’s always your choice. “
And from Judith Baxter –
No matter how dark the night we know that whatever happens, the sun will rise tomorrow and then all the shadows will be chased away.” Judith Baxter 1938 –
Just like big people I went out in an evening, rather than being in pjs by nine.
The evening was with Kathy Reichs, the creator of the Temperance Brennan character, who by the way are two different people.
TV Tempe is different than book Tempe, but both are intriguing strong women, and both are forensic anthropologists. Bones the TV series went for 12 seasons and Kathy R was also a producer on the show who also wrote a few of the scripts.
My friends and I were not too sure what to expect given her age. As a hint she is one year younger than I. And I am seventy-five. But I wasn’t that far from her, well really close when she signed my book, but you might mistake her for my daughter, well maybe much much younger sister. NO plastics, but glows with apparent good health.
So that was the first surprise.
The next was that she so people friendly, as comfortable as she might be in my living room. I have been to meet other authors some of which were stiff, uncomfortable, and obviously just wanted the evening over. One even had a body guard standing next to him.
Then it came out that she published her first book twenty-five years ago. And that made her pretty close to the big 50.
She has accomplished so much more than books that I wondered how she could seem so laid back.
The theatre of two hundred seats was almost full so I was glad I got our tickets early. And being swift of foot I managed to get close to the front of the line for the signing.
I joked on FB that she actually wanted to sign my copy to my bestie Christine, but we know that was not quite accurate.
But I got my book signed and sighed with pleasure.
Felt amazing coming home in the evening and feeling so energized. And thought to myself as I poured a G&T, I really should go out in the evning more often. But I wondered where I would go?
People seem to make a big deal of women this and that these days but I celebrate people, authors included. These three interesting just happen to be women who entertain and support the craft and each other. A fun time.
Shut downs have resulted in at least one good thing, a benefit you might say. And it is thanks to social media – yup that very thing we like to heap …
This would be my day to post but now THIS is my favourite blog post! JB wrote this yesterday And it went up at midnight on this half of the world (6 p.m. on yours) so I am not doing a blog today because it will only take attention from this. I think this is a masterpiece! My half of the world is just waking to this so this is my post of the day Borrowed!
I have several books passed down to me by my Father. I have written about him on my other blog. Although he left school and any formal learning at 13…